In 2004, Hightower rival wrote about her ‘three faces’

Stephanie Hightower, the apparent front-runner for USATF president, likes to highlight her tenure on the Columbus (Ohio) school board. She led the board for five years. But a one-time rival of hers, who later ran for governor of Ohio, has a different take. And in January 2006, her local paper did this profile as she left the board. But the comments of the ex-rival, Bob Fitrakis, are the most disturbing. He wrote: “Hightower is on the record with at least three versions of the day a 14-year-old boy threw a rock at her car. . . . Two eyewitnesses to the event who work at the YMCA, where Hightower confronted the youth, claim she called the kid ‘a motherfucker.’ ”


Here’s the story Bob posted in 2004:

Say anything — The three faces of Stephanie
January 8, 2004
We all know that politicians sometimes play fast and loose with the facts, but few are as easy to catch as the consummate storyteller Stephanie Hightower.
President Harry Truman once remarked that Richard Nixon “didn’t know the difference between the truth and a lie.” Hightower’s problem seems to be that she forgets the stories that she tells different media sources on the record. Hightower is on the record with at least three versions of the day a 14-year-old boy threw a rock at her car.
Recall on December 3 that Hightower told the Columbus Dispatch – after at least two dozen people showed up at the Columbus School Board meeting to complain about her handling of the “rock throwing” incident – that “. . . she was rattled because the rock had thudded loudly against the car window, just inches from her head.”
The Dispatch quotes Hightower as saying, “The force was such, I just knew my head was busted open.” This version of the story elicits sympathy for School Board President Hightower and helps mitigate against her admissions that she “cussed at him and tried to lunge at him [the boy],” according to the Dispatch.
Two eyewitnesses to the event who work at the YMCA, where Hightower confronted the youth, claim she called the kid “a motherfucker.” Earlier, in a November 26 interview on WVKO radio, Hightower did not specifically admit to cursing, but instead used the phrase “strongly reprimanded” to describe her language.
In an even earlier version of the story appearing in the November 13 Columbus Alive, Hightower offered this: “. . . I went into the Y and asked the directors if someone fitting that description had recently gone in. They identified that he had and knew exactly who I was talking about. . . . That was pretty much it.” The two eyewitnesses supply a little more factual detail. Both assert that Hightower burst into the Y and loudly demanded to know “Where’s that nigger at?”
Hightower explained away her outrageous behavior in her WVKO interview, by claiming the rock had nearly hit her child. Hightower said, “My 12-year-old baby was where the force of the rock hit the passenger side.” In this version, there’s no mention of the rock thudding inches above her head, rattling her window, or that she was in any way at risk. Rather, in a heart-warming tale, she told listeners, “My motherly instincts took over after I made sure my child was O.K.”
In the initial Alive version, Hightower said she, her husband and son were driving home from dinner when someone threw a rock at their car striking the passenger side window. The story doesn’t mention any shock or awe on the part of Hightower. Rather, this is the calm version where she simply went into the YMCA Eldon Ward Branch and had a sit down chat with the young rock-thrower.
While the two eyewitnesses insist that Hightower used the term “nigger,” Hightower denied it in the WVKO interview with language similar to somebody on the witness stand. “It is not my recollection that the ‘n-word’ was used,” she told listeners. The two eyewitnesses claim that in Hightower’s official written version to the YMCA, she claimed that she and Donald (the kid) came into the Y together with little contention.
“Stephanie said they came in together. You know that’s a lie,” one eyewitness said. Another Y employee explained that she cussed him out and jerked on him (the boy). “Stephanie lied on that report, and I ain’t gonna lie for her,” the employee said.
Hightower maintains that she never laid hands on the boy. The Dispatch quotes George Hunter, the Y’s Program Director of the YMCA Youth and Adult Sports as saying that Hightower approached the youth in a “threatening manner” while “cursing.”
“We were just not going to let her hit him,” Hunter told the Dispatch.
Sources close to the boy claim that Hightower demanded that the child clean her house and do chores around her yard for a six month period or she would turn him in to the police. Hightower told WVKO that she had an “intervention strategy” where she would be spending some time with the boy.
As we go to press, sources close to the family say that they are still contemplating filing an assault charge against the School Board President. Of course, there could simply be a plausible explanation for how the rock, thrown from the grassy knoll on Woodland Avenue, simultaneously threatened both her son and Stephanie, hitting first one spot on one side of the car, then magical skipping over and rattling off the other side. This is known as the “magic rock” theory.
Bob Fitrakis was a candidate for Columbus School Board in 2003.

The local Fox TV affiliate also reported:

Stephanie Hightower, president of the Columbus, Ohio school board, is taking heat for cursing at a 14-year-old boy who threw a rock at her car when she was driving with her husband and child. Hightower, a former Olympic track star, chased the boy to a nearby YMCA. George Hunter, the program director, stood between Hightower and the boy. The Columbus Dispatch reports:
(Hunter) quoted Hightower as saying: “Do you know who I am? You hit my damn car, my f’ing car. I’m the president of your school board. You being a Columbus Public Schools student, it’s embarrassing for this to happen.”
“We were just not going to let her hit him. And (the boy) is the kind that if she hit him, he would have hit her back,” Hunter said.
The argument was moved into an office, where the boy eventually shed tears and admitted he had thrown the rock, Hunter said. The boy then went to another room and wrote Hightower an apology.
. . . Hightower said yesterday that she was rattled because the rock had thudded loudly against the car window, just inches from her head.
Hightower has apologized for using “inappropriate language.” Her political opponents are accusing her of child abuse.
Too bad the YMCA guy got in the way. I’ll take a 45-year-old woman in high heels over a 14-year-old punk any day.

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November 22, 2008

6 Responses

  1. Dexter McCloud - November 23, 2008

    Ken,
    Stephanie would never say this so I feel it incumbent of me to do so.
    I have to question your motives for you to dig up a story from an event that occured over four years ago. I have spoken to Stephanie. There’s no ‘cover-up’…there’s no contradictory story…simply a scared mother who reacted to a violent action from a juvenile delinquent.
    Allow me to add some objectivity. Yes, she chased the kid into the YMCA. Yes, she yelled at him and went after him. The very same article in Columbus Dispatch says the directors of the YMCA, identified the kid and knew who [Stephanie] was talking about as soon as she came in. Which implies to me, that this kid was no stranger to trouble.
    What the article does NOT say is that a) the area Stephanie was driving through is purportedly a rough side of the town b) many, many people contacted her to express their support and to tell her that “they would have done the same thing” AND c) Stephanie still won the election to the school board.
    In closing, I only have two questions:
    1) How does this relate to the election for USATF President?
    2) If you were driving through a neighborhood at night with your kids and a brick was thrown against your window…what would YOU do?
    Dexter McCloud
    The Committee To Elect Stephanie Hightower

  2. Will Seidel - November 23, 2008

    Dexter,
    Is it true that Hightower used the word ‘nigger’? If it is untrue, why are witnesses making this claim?
    Why are Stephanie’s accounts all different and contradictory?
    These questions relate directly to the election insomuch as the electorate would be ill served by a lying racist.
    If you support Hightower you allege that either she is NOT a lying racist, or that being a lying racist shouldn’t be held against her.
    Please clarify your position, your previous post doesn’t address the issue.

  3. Dexter McCloud - November 24, 2008

    Will,
    Clearly we were not there but, from the explanation I received, no one used any racial slurs.
    Witnesses make allegations; that doesn’t make them true all the time. In the very same article, one witness said that Stephanie and the kid came into the YMCA together yet two others said that Stephanie CHASED him. In another instance, one witness said, that Stephanie “jerked on him (the boy). ” yet the Director of the YMCA maintained that he wasn’t going to let her hit him.
    You view Stephanie’s account of the story as “contradictory”. What’s contradictory about a juvenile delinquent throwing a brick at someone’s car while she’s in it with her children???
    Don’t applaud the culprit and vilify the vistim…
    And to directly speak to your point – no Stephanie is no more of a lying racist than you or I.
    Again, this is a smoke screen. By whom? You tell me…this is a story from over FOUR years ago. WHY did it surface with just over a week before the election? WHY did Ken Stone further propogate the story?
    My answer is because it’s a blatant attempt to dissuade you from focusing on the issues

  4. Brock lessner - November 24, 2008

    Either way, the USATF is involved with several activities and someone who has these issues (calling a kid a motherf’er, chassing him down, trying to lunge at him, etc) should not be invoved in anyway with an origanization that is involved and represents kids.
    I personally wouldnt want hightower anywhere near my kids after reading this story. Consider this: she was in charge of the school board! you know you are going to be involved with kids in a position like that, so if you hate them and couldeasily attck one, why would you take that position?
    And we as members are going to let this woman get elected again to a position where she may be involved (even at any point) with kids? Hell no, not on my vote.
    She is lucky that members can send in an election ballot and that most of the people that should be run out covered their butts by making it where you have to be at the meeting in Reno to vote.
    This woman has more issues than we know folks! She belongs in the looney bin, not in ANY position of power.

  5. brock lessner - November 24, 2008

    lucky that members CANT

  6. Al Tynes - November 26, 2008

    I’m a teacher and if a kid had hit my car with a brick while my child was in it, I would have reacted very much like Ms. Hightower. In fact, I would imagine most parents would do the same. There are some young people today who truly believe that they can do whatever they want to an adult and get away with it due their age. One of my students actually asked me what would happen if he hit me and I told him that he probably wouldn’t wake up for a few hours.

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